With whom you are more comfortable sharing everything?

 With whom you are more comfortable sharing everything with 

1. Your parents.

2. Your Siblings.

3. Your Best Friend.

4. Your Life Partner or Girlfriend.

Take your time and think about the answer. 

Lemme warn you what you are going to read is entirely based on my experience, so don't quote me on this, and please feel to ignore it if you find my facts wrong.

For most of you, the answer would be 4th (Definitely in the case of a life partner, maybe in the case of the girlfriend), then 3rd, then 2nd, and then 1st.

But I will tell you whichever option you have chosen. The person would be female for guys, and now I realize I don't know the female perspective. Are they comfortable sharing it with their guy friend or lady friend? But anyways, let's go with the assumption you are a guy :) Will write another part from the girl's perspective.

So, the question is now why guys are more comfortable sharing everything with a lady in their life can be their girlfriend, best friend, sister, or mother.

It's the energy the lady carries. Male energy is very energetic, aggressive, and unstable. Whereas feminine energy is very calm, also highly energetic but stable. When both of this energy combine, it's almost like forming yin and yang. But it's not like every female and male energy forms yin and yang. There must be some resonance in the frequency of the energy they carry.

Did it get heavy or feel like some bullshit has been written. Let me explain in simpler terms.

Have you ever observed how your mother knows everything about you very quickly without telling her that she will know what kind of food you like, what kind of clothes you like to wear, when you are upset and when you are happy? Whereas father wouldn't notice these things very quickly, maybe because he is out for work. But still, it's tough for them. You understand without you conveying him. And also, when you are sad about something and wanna cry, you choose your mother instead of your dad.

It's because, from the start, we have been told that boys are not weak; they don't cry, and they don't feel the pain, and our father also acts like they are mountains, no river of tough times, sad emotion or pain can get through it. They don't have any vulnerabilities and act like they are tough.

That's why when we feel low, we choose mother over father. Similarly, if you want to share anything very soft and close to your heart and don't want any tough opinion on it or just want somebody to just listen, you usually share it with the lady in your life.

Men also lack empathy, whereas females are very good at it. This skill of articulating females' feelings makes us very comfortable around them, and we tend to share everything easily with them.

When your heart breaks and you tell your guy friends that it happened, most probably, they will tell you that let's open some can of beer and forget about her. But when you tell the female friend then story would be completely different.

Guys struggle a lot in expressing their feelings. At first, I thought I was the only one who struggled the most at this, but then I observed in my group almost everybody had the same problem except 2-3. But I always thought that won't be why I stopped sharing everything I felt or what was going on in my life with my guy friends. Because I have always been an open book. I recently found out I am struggling to share everything with them. Because the thing is that while sharing those things, I need to be at my most vulnerable point. Still, shockingly, I'm not comfortable with that, maybe because we have yet to discuss like that or as I am evaluating what things to ask them or what not can be.

And not only the things for which you have to become vulnerable but also anything close to your heart. It can also be about your career growth, financial goals, or any materialistic goal, which usually guys talk about normally. If that also feels sacred, you will be a little uncomfortable (not entirely) sharing it with the guys.

So, maybe next time when your heart breaks. And you don't wanna have a beer you know where to go lol.

Feedbacks are always welcome. I tried to explain it but don't know how much of it worked